Whatever it is you want in your life, you must give up the need to fixate on the outcome - and let it come to you in its own time. Our minds react emotionally when we don’t get our way and we tend to get fixated when our ideas about how things “should be” differ from how things actually are.



I’m in an unpleasant place in my life


But I am thankful for the experience because I have learned that the size of my house, brands on my clothes and cars, country club membership status, type of school I go to, all the way down to the color of my hair do not and should not define me.

I should be defined by the content of my character, how I treat other living things, how I contribute to my community, things I can control.